- Did the Buddha Get Angry?
Was anger recommended by the Buddha as potentially beneficial? Did the Buddha himself ever get angry? In early Buddhism we learn of the unskillfulness of hatred, but is anger in the same category? We will consider these questions in this…
- Buddha's Advice On The Dangers Of Affection May Surprise You!
Affection can be dangerous, this is some of the surprising and even shocking advice the Buddha gives in the early suttas. I'll look at what the Buddha said about some of affection's problematic role in lay and monastic life, as well as…
- The Dalai Lama's Confusion Over Self Hatred
When the Dalai Lama first heard of self-hatred, he was confounded by it. I'll look at his encounter with Sharon Salzberg and other eminent scholars and scientists, and consider their thoughts about where low self esteem arises from. I'll…
- Buddha on Anger and Hatred
What did the Buddha have to say about anger and hatred? Did he distinguish between the two, and what should we do about them? We'll look at a few of the key early discourses of the Buddha for answers.
- Practicing "Effacement" Through Kindness in Early Buddhism
What is the practice of self-effacement in early Buddhism? We'll look at one sutta that distinguishes a practice of self-effacement through kindness and non-harming from a separate practice of deep meditative absorption. We'll also…
- Dealing With Anger
How should we deal with anger when it arises within our meditation practice and within our ordinary lives? I'll give a few techniques from contemporary practice and the early tradition that have worked for me. I'll also give some…
- When Anger Takes Over: Brittle Metta
We may practice kindness, but anger and hatred will take over at times. We'll deal with one syndrome involving anger and talk about ways to approach it that may be helpful.
- Secular Practice with Images and Rituals
Many of us have questions about including images or rituals in secular Buddhist practice. We may find the idea congenial, on the other hand we may have an aversion to traditional forms of practice, or indeed we may come from a different…
- The Three Poisons of Buddhism: Antidotes
The three poisons of greed, hatred, and delusion lie at the root of many of our problems. What can we do about them? Here are some techniques from early Buddhist teachings.